Becoming a parent changes everything. One moment you are waiting, and the next your world shifts as you hold a tiny new life. That feeling of joy, thankfulness, and responsibility settles in your heart all at once. In Islam, welcoming a newborn is not only a family celebration. It is a moment of worship. One of the most loved ways to honour this blessing is Aqiqah, a beautiful Sunnah that has been practised since the time of Prophet Muhammad (PBUH).
Many new parents hear about it, but not everyone knows how to do it, when to do it, or why the tradition holds so much meaning. This guide explains everything in simple words so you can understand the purpose behind it, the steps involved, the benefits, and how modern families carry it out today.
What is Aqiqah?
The word Aqiqah refers to the sacrifice of an animal for a newborn. It is carried out as a way of thanking Allah for the child. Think of it as a parent’s first act of worship on behalf of their baby. It is a way of saying Alhamdulillah for this new life and seeking blessings for their future.
Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) encouraged families to perform it. It was done for his own grandchildren, Hasan and Hussain. From that time until today, Muslims across the world continue the practice with love and gratitude.
It is a sacrifice that includes shaving the baby’s hair and giving charity. Yet behind its simplicity lies deep meaning.
Why is it Important?
It is not an obligation, but a highly recommended Sunnah with great reward. A well-known hadith states:
“Every child is held in pledge for its Aqiqah, which is sacrificed on its behalf on the seventh day, the head is shaved, and the child is named.” – Sunan Abu Dawood
Scholars explain that “held in pledge” means the child is spiritually connected to this act. It becomes a way of seeking protection for the baby and asking Allah to bless their path in life.
For parents, it is a moment to reflect. Parenthood is a trust. It allows you to pause, give thanks, and begin your journey with a sincere heart. It encourages kindness. The meat is shared with family, neighbours, and those who need it most. This simple act spreads happiness far beyond your home.
Some families say they still remember the day they did Aqiqah for their child by cooking together, handing plates to neighbours, or donating all the meat to charity. The joy becomes a memory attached to the child’s early days.
The three main parts of Aqiqah
Although cultures add their own traditions, it generally include three key actions:
1. The Sacrifice
A halal animal is sacrificed, usually a goat or sheep. For a baby boy, two animals are recommended. For a girl, one is recommended. The animal must be healthy and of the proper age. It is sacrificed following Islamic guidelines.
Some parents prefer to be present. Others ask a butcher or a service to perform it on their behalf. Both are valid. What matters is intention and care. The meat from this sacrifice becomes the centre of giving and sharing.
2. Shaving the baby’s head
The baby’s hair is shaved on the seventh day. Many parents feel emotional during this moment. Some keep a small amount of hair as a memory. It shows purity, a fresh beginning in life, and humility before Allah.
3. Giving charity
This is where blessings multiply. After shaving, the hair is weighed. Parents donate silver or gold equal to its weight as charity. The donation helps someone in need, and the reward goes to the child. Even though modern scales are digital and hair hardly weighs much, the spirit of charity is what counts. This act also reminds many parents of Zakat, as both encourage giving with sincerity and helping others for the sake of Allah.
When should it be done?
The ideal day is the 7th day after birth. But life is not always simple. Some babies arrive early. Some stay in the hospital longer. Some families face financial challenges. If the 7th day is not possible, the 14th or 21st day can be chosen. And if more time passes, parents can still perform it later.
There is no guilt in delaying. It is worship, not pressure. It should bring peace, not stress.
How to Perform Aqiqah
Here’s a quick, practical breakdown new parents find helpful:
Step 1: Choose a halal animal.
Step 2: Find a butcher or Aqiqah service.
Step 3: Arrange the sacrifice on your chosen day.
Step 4: Distribute the meat among family, friends, and the poor.
Step 5: Shave the baby’s head gently.
Step 6: Weigh the hair and give charity.
Some families cook biryani or curry at home and deliver dishes to neighbours. Others donate all the meat so that hungry families can eat fresh meals. Many also send it to poorer countries where food is scarce.
Who receives meat?
Aqiqah is not only worship. It is a community. No meat is sold. It can be given to:
- Family members
- Friends and neighbours
- The poor and needy
Sharing food is one of the most beautiful parts. A small plate handed to a neighbour can open hearts. A meal given to someone struggling can ease their hunger.
In the UK, parents donate the entire Aqiqah to charity organisations, like United Muslims, so families overseas can benefit. A simple sacrifice here may feed dozens elsewhere.
Modern Ways to Perform
Life today is fast. Families live far apart. Not every parent knows where to find a butcher. Islamic centres and charities now offer Aqiqah services that handle the sacrifice, meat distribution, and charity donation on behalf of parents. Some even send photos or videos as proof.
Overseas Aqiqah is also common. It supports poorer communities where meat is expensive and rarely eaten.
Whether you hold a small gathering at home or arrange everything online, it remains meaningful. Faith is constant even when methods evolve. Many parents also prefer to donate Aqiqah online, making it simple and accessible. At the same time, giving the hair value as a Sadaqah donation keeps the Sunnah alive in a beautiful way.
Conclusion
It is a simple but meaningful tradition. It celebrates a new life and spreads blessings. Parents express gratitude to Allah, protect their child, and help the community.
Focus on intention and effort, not logistics. Whether done personally or through charity, Aqiqah leaves a lasting impact. It’s a way to start your child’s journey with gratitude, generosity, and faith.
